Everybody Wins: The Chapman Guide to Solving Conflicts without Arguing (Chapman Guides)

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Every couple has disagreements. All too often, though, when we engage in arguments, our goal is not to resolve the conflict at hand, but rather, to win the fight. Unfortunately, when you win an argument, your spouse is the loser, and nobody wants to be or live with a loser. When you resolve a conflict, your spouse becomes your friend. Good marriages are based on friendship, not on winning arguments. Now, Gary Chapman provides couples with a simple blueprint for achieving win-win solutions to everyday conflicts and disagreements. By learning how to listen empathetically, respecting each other?s ideas and feelings, and understanding why particular issues are so important to their spouse, couples can find solutions that result not only in resolving the conflict at hand, but also leave both partners feeling loved, listened to, and appreciated.

Publishers Description
Every couple has disagreements. All too often, though, when we engage in arguments, our goal is not to resolve the conflict at hand, but rather, to win the fight. Unfortunately, when you win an argument, your spouse is the loser, and nobody wants to be or live with a loser. When you resolve a conflict, your spouse becomes your friend. Good marriages are based on friendship, not on winning arguments. Now, Gary Chapman provides couples with a simple blueprint for achieving win-win solutions to everyday conflicts and disagreements. By learning how to listen empathetically, respecting each other's ideas and feelings, and understanding why particular issues are so important to their spouse, couples can find solutions that result not only in resolving the conflict at hand, but also leave both partners feeling loved, listened to, and appreciated.

Community Description
Every couple has disagreements. Unfortunately, when couples argue, the goal is not to resolve the conflict at hand but rather to win the fight. When one of you wins, the other loses-and nobody wants to be or live with a loser. Trusted relationship expert Dr. Gary Chapman provides a simple blueprint to help you and your spouse achieve win-win solutions to everyday conflicts and disagreements that will put an end to arguing once and for all and leave both of you feeling loved, listened to, and appreciated.
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Item Specifications...

Pages   109
Dimensions:   Length: 0.5" Width: 4.25" Height: 7.25"
Weight:   0.4 lbs.
Binding  Hardcover
Release Date   Jan 1, 2007
Publisher   Tyndale House Publishers
ISBN  141430014X  
EAN  9781414300146  


Availability  13 units.
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Reviews - What do our customers think?
Everybody Wins: The Chapman Guide to Solving Conflicts without Arguing  Feb 12, 2009
We used this book with young married couples in our church with great success. It is a small book, so people are likely to read it and it is full of wonderful ideas, examples and help.
 
Straight to the point  Aug 14, 2008
I decided to get the audio version because I could listen to it in my car. I like the fact that he gets straight to the point. Explaining the specifics of a conversation and why the way people look at conversations don't work and seems to lead to arguing a lot of the time. The book is just two CD's long, so as I said above, he gets to the point right away. There are really good exercises in there to use and he uses real world examples that make sense.

For starters I would definitely suggest this book to anyone that has conflict in their lives.
 
Quick & Read  Jul 28, 2008
I really enjoyed this book. It gives strait forward information on empathetic listening and compromising. It only took me about an hour to read it too!! The information Dr. Chapman gives is very strait forward and easy to understand.
I handed it to my boyfriend to read it next...he never listens to me...I hope it helps our relationship.
 
small book... lots of useful info.!! love it!!  May 27, 2008
It is exactly what I wanted and more!!

Thank you for the order.
 
Deepen the relationship or justify your actions?  Dec 9, 2007
The magic of this short audio book is that it brings your intention to respect and love your partner into conflict resolution. Dr. Chapman reminds you of ideal love you want to have and then shows you how to get back on the track that will take you there. All couples have disagreements and misunderstandings. The couples that work through all conflicts gain tremendous insight and appreciation into each other while avoiding built up hidden resentment.

The concepts of empathetic listening and compromise are not new. The real value in this product is the change that will occur in you through the process of learning what is important in relationships. You will feel the changes in your mindset right away.

My only critique is the audio book left me wanting to know more pitfalls and solutions.
 

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